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Raymond L. Boyington
September 25, 1941 - July 16, 2022
After a four-month battle with aggressive brain cancer, Raymond Lee Boyington of Ventura, California, passed away on July 16, 2022, while in In-Home Hospice Care. He was 80. Raymond was born in Embden, Maine, the son of Frank Boyington and Alta Quimby Boyington. He was one of seven siblings.
Raymond leaves behind his partner and husband of twenty-four years, Jack Urquhart of Ventura, CA; Daughters, Dr. Sarah Gonda, Thousand Oaks, CA, and Katharine Boyington, Portland, OR; Son-in-law, Dr. John Gonda, Thousand Oaks; Granddaughter Danielle Boyington, San Francisco; Grandsons Dedrick Boyington, Brooklyn, NY, and Nate and Emmett Gonda, Thousand Oaks; and the mother of his daughters, Barbara Boyington, Mountain View, CA. Other family members include sister Betty LaPoint, Branford, CT; and brothers, Weldon Boyington, Andalusia, AL, Richard Boyington, Sebastian, FL, and Mahlon Boyington, Vero Beach, FL, as well as numerous nieces and nephews whom he loved very much.
Raymond received an MS in Physical Chemistry at the University of Connecticut, Storrs, where he was subsequently employed as a lecturer in the Department of Chemistry, as well as the coordinator and liaison for General Chemistry to the statewide university campuses (1969--1980). Raymond was a Fulbright Exchange Teacher (Kempston, England, 1991) and taught at numerous high schools in the San Francisco Bay Area, including the Harker School, San Jose, University High School, and Lick-Wilmerding High School, San Francisco.
A dedicated and exacting educator and scientist for over fifty years, Raymond mentored countless youths, many of whom have gone on to distinguished careers.
Raymond will be remembered for his inquiring mind and quick intellect, winning smile, ability to love and empathize deeply, and his unwavering dedication to family and friends.
Donations: The American Cancer Society

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jul. 18, 2022.

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Jack Urquhart

July 12, 2024

Dear Ray, Tomorrow will mark 104 Saturdays since you took your leave. I have calendared every one of them. Because I feel them - all these absences. Because I love you, dear man. Still. Still. - jack

Jack Urquhart

July 24, 2022

Dear Ray, Thank you for twenty-four years of companionship, friendship, and love. "I'll be seeing you in all the old familiar places..." for as long as I live. And if there really is an afterlife, then what a reunion we'll share! Love, your Jack

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