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Shane O'BRIEN Obituary

Died at home on Sunday 23 March 2025, aged 70 years. Husband, lover and treasured friend of Jill. Much loved dad and father-in-law to Matthew and Kelsie, Emily and Andrew Haste, Hamish and Jayde, and Sophie and Jordan Whitley. Adored Poppa to Eve, and Jett; Tilly; Kale, Sadie, and Loïc; and baby Whitley. Loved brother of Alistair and Tash O'Brien. Much loved eldest cousin of the Shortall, MacErlean and O'Brien families, Godfather of Stacey Shortall and Will Spencer, and uncle of his nieces and nephews. In lieu of flowers, donations to Arohanui Hospice would be appreciated. Friends are invited to attend a service for Shane at Shane and Jill's home, 320 Kimbolton Road, Feilding, on Friday 28 March 2025 at 11.00am, followed by private family interment at Kelvin Grove Cemetery. For those unable to attend, a livestream of the service will be on Shane's tribute page at www.beauchamp.co.nz/tributes


Published by Manawatu Standard on Mar. 25, 2025.

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for Shane O'BRIEN

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Nick Harrison

May 28, 2025

Rest easy, Shane.

You were a top man. You didn´t have to help me, but you did. You believed in me, backed me, and taught me so much.. more than you probably realised.

I´ll always appreciate that.

Condolences to the family. Thinking of you all.

Nick

Jeanette & Lance Iwikau

April 11, 2025

Our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time

Kathy Smith

April 4, 2025

I would like to send my condolences to Shane's family. I remember him from the days my day use to take his dad's calves and rear them on our land for about six weeks at a time. We had quite a bit to do with the family when they where in Watershed Road. We would have been about 11 years old. Thoughts are with you all.

Elaine Buxton

April 4, 2025

Dear Jill
I'm shocked & very very sad to read this morning of Shane's passing. If only I had known we would certainly have been at Kaingara on 28th. Reading the many tributes to Shane on this site I feel it's all be said so eloquently by so many. Sincere sympathy to you Jill & your family. It was an absolute pleasure to have known Shane
Elaine Buxton

Margaret Karatea

March 30, 2025

Dear Jill so sorry to hear of the loss of Shane. I remember him fondly as a man of integrity and kindness. He was always so welcoming and always made you feel that he was present, with his easy smile and conversation. Thinking of you and all the whanau at this sad time. Much love e hoa.

Jeff and Teresa Grant

March 29, 2025

Dear Jill, Matthew, Emily, Hamish, Emily, and grandchildren. We are so sorry for your loss which will be keenly felt. Shane was a lovely man who always had time for a chat with a smile. He genuinely cared about people. He was a great husband, father and grandfather. His spirit lives on in all of you. Much aroha to you and prayers at this sad time.

Ross Darragh

March 28, 2025

Condolences to the family with Shane´s passing. It is a great loss to our community.
Shane was a great boss and I feel privileged to have benefited from working with/for him.
He was always quick with a smile and conversation when we crossed paths after that time.
Sorry we could not be there today to celebrate his life with you all.
Ross and Christine.

Lorraine Sweet

March 28, 2025

Sending my condolences to you Jill & Family. In the loss of Shane & Grandfather of your children. It´s been a long time since I knew you in Colyton

Steve Ward

March 28, 2025

Our deepest sympathy on Shane´s passing. He was a great man to work with. He will be very much missed. Steve & Kirsty Ward

Annie Wright

March 28, 2025

Sad news Jilly... I watched Shane´s service and was greatly moved by the families tributes. Honest, unaffected and deeply moving.
He loved you all so much and was deeply loved in return.
Big hugs...door is always open here in the Wairarapa

dave mackrow

March 28, 2025

Shane will be missed he was an inspirational leader. I always enjoyed our conversations. Colspec is in good hands with Hamish at the helm.

Bill and Maria

March 28, 2025

Sorry for your loss Jill and family. RIP Shane. Your neighbors Bill and Maria.

Graeme Tanner

March 28, 2025

Condolences to the family
Met through rugby and work
RIP Shane

Jenny Long

March 28, 2025

So sorry to hear of Shane's passing Jill. Have great memories of Shane when working in the building industry years ago. Rest in peace OB as we all called him.
Jenny and Michael Long

Brian Dredge

March 28, 2025

So sorry for your loss Jilly from Brian and Judy Dredge.

Kathleen Duff

March 28, 2025

Our heartfelt condolences to you and the family Jill. We never knew Shane personally but like most people in Feilding, we knew who he was. He will leave a big gap in our town. Neal and Kathleen Duff

Margaret Broderick

March 28, 2025

Thinking if you Jill and your family at this sad time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Margaret Broderick

Sue Sheely

March 28, 2025

Will miss you Shane. Very nice man. Rest in Peace my friend. Sympathy to Jill and family. Love Sue Sheely and family

Megan Hinks

March 27, 2025

So sorry to hear of your loss O´Brien family, just know that we are thinking of you all.
May fond memories bring you peace and comfort xxx

Kris Rutherford

March 27, 2025

Jill and family. So sorry to read of the passing of such a lovely man. Treasure all those beautiful memories, of which I know, you will have plenty of. Take care xxx

Pam and Grant Roberts

March 27, 2025

Friends from indoor basketball years. Our condolences to Jill and family

Kevin Dustin

March 27, 2025

It was a pleasure to call on Shane and his team when tenders were closing on Commercial or housing contracts over the many years.slncere condolences to Jill and family.

Peter Kynoch

March 27, 2025

Shane contributed a huge amount to construction in general but especially in the Manawatu. He was a selfless mentor to myself, along with many others in the area, throughout my whole building career and the legacy of his knowledge will be passed on through Hamish. I speak on behalf of the entire construction community sending our sympathy and thoughts at this time.

Helen Cahill

March 27, 2025

Shane (and Jill) were part of the Colyton Tennis Club, many years ago when we were all much younger. I remember him as a man who was always friendly, a genuine person who was interested in what was happening - a great member of the local community!

Sending much love to all of the family, you'll all be very sad, and you'll miss him. Enjoy the memories.

Denise Murphy

March 26, 2025

To Jill & family, my prayers, thoughts and love to you all at this time

Neil Spencer

March 26, 2025

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to you Jill and all the family. He fought well and for so long against the odds. He will be missed by many. My love to all

Nina Johnston-Treder

March 26, 2025

Much love and hugs to you all x

Tony McGreal

March 26, 2025

Hard to believe. Remember days at Colyton. Sincere condolences to all of the family. Betty and Tony McGreal ex Colyton Lions and residents.

Celia Geary

March 26, 2025

Dear Jill and family, I am sorry to hear of your loss of Shane. You and your family will miss Shane so much. I grieve for you.

Marilyn & Paul Yortt

March 26, 2025

Deepest sympathy to Jill and family for the sad loss of Shane. What a fighter. Unfortunately we are down in Wanaka so unable to attend service. We will make contact with you Jill next time we are down staying with Joss. Thinking of you all at such a sad time. Marilyn & Paul

Liz & Larry Summerville

March 26, 2025

You held on with strength and resilience Shane. You will be hugely missed. It's been a privilege to have been a part of your life. Huge love to all of the family xx Liz & Larry

Michael Ford

March 26, 2025

To Jill, Matthew, Emily, Hamish, Sophie and families.
Our sincere condolences. We have had some really good associations with you both Jill, and Shane through business. Shane has been a community leader and has left a proud legacy. One of our absolute best movers and shakers, builders and developers, contributors to education and sport.
Cherish your memories.
Best wishes, Joan and Michael Ford

Wendy n Peter Guard

March 25, 2025

Jill and family our deepest condolences. Shane was a hard worker, husband, family man. I got to work alongside Shane on the Board of Trustees when our kids were at school together. He always had the kids and schools interests at heart. He will be sorely missed by all that knew him. May you now rest in peace Shane.

Robyn

March 25, 2025

Jilly, so sad to hear of Shanes passing. Our thoughts and fond memories to you and your family. Much Love Robyn Olliver(Borley).

Andrew & Julie White

March 25, 2025

Dear Jill and family
Our prayers, love and thoughts are with you all. Shane has left a legacy in our town and district. God bless you all.

Leanne Ramlose

March 25, 2025

My condolences to Family and the Colspec colleagues, enjoyed working with Shane on the retirement village build in Feilding RIP my friend.

Pat Henaghan

March 25, 2025

A giant Totara has fallen far too early ! Have wonderful memories of Shane in Colyton Lions
and the tennis club at Colyton.
God bless the Family
Pat Henaghan

Colin and Donna MacMillan @ Colyton

March 25, 2025

Very sad to hear of Shane's passing. Our thoughts are with all of the family at this sad time. We shared some fun times when the family lived in Colyton.

Ken Green

March 25, 2025

Sorry to hear about Shane. He was always the "look up to cousin'. I remember fondly travelling on the school bus and other activities post Boys High. Will remain in my heart - Ken Green, Whangarei

Barbara Webber

March 25, 2025

Sincere sympathy to Jill and all Shane's family. Barb Webber

Gary and Yvonne Thomson

March 25, 2025

Dear Jill and family, our heartfelt sympathy to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time of Shane passing. Hold on to your precious memories of good times spent together. Gary and I were very shocked to read this obituary just now. Sincere condolences and blessings.

Manawatu Business Chamber

March 25, 2025

Our thoughts are very much with family and friends during this sad time.

Brian Hills

March 25, 2025

To Jill & family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Love Alison and Brian Hills

Marie & Ian Mason

March 25, 2025

Dear Jill and family, we were saddened to learn of Shane's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Marie & Ian

Allan Gerrie

March 25, 2025

Thinking of you all at this time. Allan and Jennifer Gerrie.

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